Life Without Baby

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Guest Post: Spoiling Someone Else’s Kids April 13, 2012

By Heather Smith

Whether you made the decision to not have children or it was made for you, more than likely there is a little kid somewhere that has your heart; it may be a niece or a nephew, a godson or your friend’s child. Whoever this child may be to you, you love them and you want to show them that.

But what is more fun than being the ‘cool aunt’? Here are some sure fire ways spoil someone else’s kids and probably annoy their parents:

Trips:  Be the crazy and fun grownup or the silly godparent that takes junior to see that silly new cartoon movie or to get ice cream that is piled up too high. Don’t forget about water parks, zoos and children museums. You bring out the kid in the kid. Don’t forget the souvenirs, especially the ones that make lots and lots of noise!

Toys:  Oh joy the toys! The must haves and the wants must be fulfilled as the spoiler. This doesn’t mean you have to wait until a holiday or a birthday to shower them with the newest video game or the latest princess game. More sporadic and random the gift giving is, the better. Your goal: clutter someone else’s living room and be the queen of queens through the child’s eyes.

Candy:  Always keep candy on you. Not only is it a great idea for you and your mid-day sweet tooth, but having candy on you is an excellent way to butter up that butterball. Candy can be used as a prize or an excellent bribing technique. Either way you will have the kid eating out of the palm of your hand. Literally.

Use your words:  Yes trips, candy and toys may be fun, but in all seriousness, when it comes down to spoiling a little one, using words is the biggest form of showing your love. Spoiling doesn’t mean giving them trivial things that they want. Telling them you love them and that you are there for them will stick around with them longer than any piece of candy or trip to the zoo. And remember if you say these things, you better follow up. We all know that actions speak louder than words.

Heather Smith is an ex-nanny. Passionate about thought leadership and writing, Heather regularly contributes to various career, social media, public relations, branding, and parenting blogs/websites, and offers site design advice for Hire a Nanny. She can be available at H.smith7295 [at] gmail [dot] com.


2 Responses to “Guest Post: Spoiling Someone Else’s Kids”

  1. Kellie Says:

    I have to say, that I am the cool aunt. My nephews love me as I get them the things the parents would never dream of….in fact, my brothers aren’t too thrilled about the gifts, but that’s what is so fun. I have bought keyboards, drum sets, electric guitars, etc….. I guess it’s kind of a payback for growing up with two older brothers that always teased and picked on me. Candy was always fun when they were younger and got the sugar highs right before bed time! 🙂

  2. Amel Says:

    Today a girl gave me a hug and I gave her and her sister some chocolate (not too much so that the parents won’t mind) and she yelped in joy (the younger sister was still too young) he he…They’re strangers but this girl for some reason is fond of me and lately she’s started hugging me every now and then. 😀 I call that a blessing! 😀

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